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LGBTQIA+ Church Calendar

Key observances, feast days, and birthdays of LGBTQIA+ luminaries and saints — woven through the whole year, not just June. Add it to your church communications calendar and let the year tell the story.

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Know someone who should be on this calendar? Use the Suggest an Addition button above. All suggestions are reviewed before being added. For a comprehensive daily calendar of LGBTQ saints, visit Q Spirit by Kittredge Cherry.

January

Jan 5
Feast Day · Episcopal Calendar

Apollinaria/Dorotheos (5th century)

A fifth-century saint who crossed gender lines to live as a monk in Egypt, taking the name Dorotheos. Venerated in the Episcopal Church on January 5. One of several early Christian figures who lived outside the gender binary and found spiritual wholeness in doing so.

Jan 12
Feast Day

Aelred of Rievaulx

Cistercian abbot who wrote about same-sex love as a path to God. His work Spiritual Friendship is among the most tender writings on love in Christian history. On the Episcopal calendar.

Jan 20
Feast Day

Saint Sebastian

Roman soldier and martyr whose iconography has made him a figure of profound significance in queer culture for centuries.

Jan 26
Birthday

David Kato (1964)

Ugandan LGBTQIA+ rights activist murdered in 2011. His death drew international attention to violence against queer people in Uganda.

February

Feb 1
Feast Day

Saint Brigid of Ireland (c.451–525)

One of Ireland's most beloved saints and the founder of the monastery at Kildare. Brigid's deep bond with her companion Darlughdach — who shared her bed and succeeded her as abbess — has long been recognized as a model of same-sex devotion. Their relationship is honored in some traditions as a witness to the possibility of sacred love between women.

Feb 18
Birthday

Audre Lorde (1934)

"Your silence will not protect you." Poet, essayist, and activist whose work on intersectionality and survival remains essential.

March

Mar 7
Feast Day

Perpetua and Felicity

Early Christian martyrs and close companions whose bond has been interpreted as a model of same-sex devotion. Feast day March 7.

Mar 17
Birthday

Bayard Rustin (1912)

Organizer of the 1963 March on Washington. Sidelined for decades because he was gay. One of the most important and most erased figures in American civil rights history.

Mar 31
Observance

Trans Day of Visibility

An annual day celebrating the resilience, joy, and contributions of transgender people. A day for congregations to make their welcome visible and specific.

April

Apr 6
Observance

International Asexuality Day

A day to celebrate and raise awareness of asexual, demisexual, and ace identities. A reminder that welcome includes those whose experience of love and attraction differs from the norm.

Apr 26
Observance

Lesbian Visibility Day

A day showcasing women-loving-women and providing a platform for lesbian role models to speak out on the issues facing female-identified sexual minorities.

May

May 17
Observance

International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia

Marks the day in 1990 when the WHO removed homosexuality from its list of mental disorders. A day for congregations to name the harm of discrimination and recommit to welcome.

May 22
Birthday

Harvey Milk (1930)

"Hope will never be silent." First openly gay elected official in California.

May 29
Birthday

Gene Robinson (1947)

First openly gay bishop in the Episcopal Church, consecrated 2003. His election changed the trajectory of the Anglican Communion.

May 30
Feast Day

Joan of Arc

Warrior-saint who wore men's clothes and was burned at the stake for it. A figure of profound significance for gender nonconforming and queer people of faith. Feast day May 30.

June

Jun 1
Observance

Pride Month Begins

For congregations committed to year-round welcome, this is a moment to make that welcome especially visible — not the only moment, but an important one.

Jun 2
Birthday

Gilbert Baker (1951)

Designer of the original rainbow flag for the 1978 San Francisco Gay Freedom Day Parade. The flag has become the most recognized symbol of LGBTQIA+ identity worldwide.

Jun 12
Observance

Pulse Orlando Remembrance

On June 12, 2016, 49 people were killed at Pulse, an LGBTQIA+ nightclub in Orlando. A day for congregations to grieve, remember, and recommit.

Jun 28
Observance

Anniversary of Stonewall (1969)

The uprising led by trans women of color including Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera that catalyzed the modern LGBTQIA+ rights movement.

July

Jul 1
Feast Day

Pauli Murray

Lawyer, poet, Episcopal priest, activist. First Black woman ordained as an Episcopal priest. Queer, though she lived before the language existed. On the Episcopal calendar.

Jul 14
Observance

International Non-Binary People's Day

A day to celebrate people whose gender identity is neither exclusively male nor female. For congregations to examine whether their language and welcome fully includes non-binary people.

August

Aug 2
Birthday

James Baldwin (1924)

"Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced." Novelist, essayist, and prophet.

Aug 24
Birthday

Marsha P. Johnson (1945)

"Pay it no mind." Activist and central figure in the Stonewall uprising. Co-founded STAR with Sylvia Rivera to support homeless queer youth.

September

Sep 11
Remembrance

Mychal Judge

Franciscan friar and FDNY chaplain, first certified fatality of September 11. Openly gay and beloved by the community he served in New York City.

Sep 23
Observance

Celebrate Bisexuality Day

Also known as Bisexual Visibility Day. Observed since 1999 to celebrate the bisexual community and raise awareness of biphobia — which can come from straight and gay communities alike.

Third Week
Observance

Bisexual Awareness Week

A community often erased even within affirming spaces. A week for congregations to examine whether their welcome is specific enough to reach everyone.

October

Oct 1
Observance

LGBT History Month Begins

October is LGBT History Month in the United States and Canada. A month to celebrate the contributions of LGBTQIA+ people throughout history and to the life of the church.

Oct 7
Feast Day

Sergius and Bacchus

Roman soldiers and martyrs whose devotion to each other was documented as a same-sex union by historian John Boswell. Venerated in Eastern Christianity.

Oct 8
Observance

International Lesbian Day

A day celebrating lesbian culture, community, and visibility. For congregations to affirm that lesbian women belong fully in the life of the church.

Oct 11
Observance

National Coming Out Day

Anniversary of the 1987 March on Washington. A day for congregations to actively signal that their doors are open to people at every stage of their journey.

Oct 12
Remembrance

Anniversary of Matthew Shepard's Death (1998)

Matthew Shepard was a 21-year-old gay college student beaten and left to die in Wyoming. His death catalyzed the movement for hate crime legislation.

Third Wed
Observance

International Pronouns Day

Seeks to make asking, sharing, and respecting personal pronouns commonplace. Being referred to by the wrong pronouns particularly affects transgender and gender nonconforming people.

Third Thu
Observance

Spirit Day

GLAAD's annual day of solidarity with LGBTQIA+ youth who face bullying. Particularly significant for congregations with youth ministries.

Oct 26
Observance

Intersex Awareness Day

To raise awareness of intersex people and end shame, secrecy, and unwanted surgeries on intersex children. All bodies are made in the image of God.

November

Nov 29
Birthday

Birthday of Publick Universal Friend (1752)

Born Jemima Wilkinson in Rhode Island in 1752. After a near-death experience in 1776, the Friend declared independence from gender — the same year America declared independence from Britain — and spent decades preaching, advocating against slavery, and founding a religious community. The Friend refused gendered pronouns and dressed androgynously, embodying genderlessness as a spiritual calling. Recognized as one of the earliest nonbinary religious figures in American history. The National Park Service page about the Friend was deleted in early 2025 as part of a federal campaign to remove LGBTQ history from government websites.

First Sun
Observance

Trans Parent Day

A day to celebrate and honor transgender parents and parents of transgender children. For congregations to affirm that every kind of family belongs.

Nov 1
Observance

All Saints Day — LGBTQ Saints

An occasion to name and honor the queer saints — known and unknown — who have been part of the church's story from the beginning. Q Spirit maintains a comprehensive calendar at qspirit.net.

Nov 13–19
Observance

Transgender Awareness Week

The week leading up to Trans Day of Remembrance. Dedicated to increasing visibility and awareness of the transgender community. Name trans people by name, not just in general welcome.

Nov 20
Observance

Trans Day of Remembrance

To memorialize those who have been killed due to anti-transgender violence. Congregations are invited to hold space, read names, and commit to protection.

Nov 27
Remembrance

Anniversary of Harvey Milk's Assassination (1978)

Harvey Milk was assassinated on November 27, 1978. His death remains a symbol of the cost and the necessity of visible LGBTQIA+ leadership.

December

Dec 1
Observance

World AIDS Day

The AIDS crisis decimated queer communities and was met with silence from many institutions, including the church. Remembrance and recommitment belong together on this day.

Dec 8
Observance

Pansexual Pride Day

A day celebrating pansexual and panromantic people — those whose love and attraction is not limited by gender. A day to affirm that welcome includes identities that are often overlooked.

This calendar draws on multiple sources including the Episcopal Church calendar, Q Spirit by Kittredge Cherry, and QueerEvents.ca. It is not comprehensive — it is a starting point. Suggestions welcome.

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